I have been remodeling a rental property for a 77 year-old woman for the past 4 weeks. We've become friendly and she's very appreciative to have someone trustworthy to work on her home.
Today I was leaning over a counter, fixing a window, when she asked if I had brought some safety pins for her like she texted me about this morning.
I told her I forgot.
Then she said "Oh you are a bad, bad, boy!" and smacked me on the ass.
It wasn't painful, but it was a little more than a tap.
I said something like, "Hey, c'mon, please let's keep it professional."
She reacted a bit shocked and asked if I was serious.
I just kind of mumbled "Yeah it's ok" because I didn't want to make it more awkward than it already was, and we went about the rest of our business.
Is this sexual harassment or sexual assault?
I wish it didn't happen. She's a nice lady and I've been able to help her improve her life situation with my help. I didn't want to make it awkward.
Naturally the first place I have come to is the CP legal experts. [Reply]
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I got harassed back in my 20s working at a large insurance company in Omaha...you can probably figure it out. Anyway, this older gal who was also frankly pretty unattractive, would always make little comments to me that were at the very least annoying and sometimes kinda uncomfortable. But, I was kinda new and pretty young, so I just rolled my eyes about it and moved on.
One day, I'm walking down the cubicle row and she stops me from passing by putting both arms up and out, like in a T-Shape and was like "Where are you going?" I was like "Uh, to the copy machine" and she says "Well, what's the magic password?" I said "Please?" and she said "No, that's not good enough"...I mean this got pretty long and uncomfortable and I got pretty annoyed. I finally half smiled and said "OK, you need to move" and she let me by. But ugh...I put up with that kind of shit from her for a couple of years until I transferred to a new job.
...now, if she had been some hottie in the office, no problem. But as I said, she was older and not attractive. Ugh. [Reply]
Originally Posted by InChiefsHeaven:
I got harassed back in my 20s working at a large insurance company in Omaha...you can probably figure it out. Anyway, this older gal who was also frankly pretty unattractive, would always make little comments to me that were at the very least annoying and sometimes kinda uncomfortable. But, I was kinda new and pretty young, so I just rolled my eyes about it and moved on.
One day, I'm walking down the cubicle row and she stops me from passing by putting both arms up and out, like in a T-Shape and was like "Where are you going?" I was like "Uh, to the copy machine" and she says "Well, what's the magic password?" I said "Please?" and she said "No, that's not good enough"...I mean this got pretty long and uncomfortable and I got pretty annoyed. I finally half smiled and said "OK, you need to move" and she let me by. But ugh...I put up with that kind of shit from her for a couple of years until I transferred to a new job.
...now, if she had been some hottie in the office, no problem. But as I said, she was older and not attractive. Ugh.
This actually sounds incredibly obnoxious. [Reply]
TinyE probably had to stop off a Quick trip for the Big Gulch. Rehydrator for after a heavy night of motorboating or geriatric lady love session [Reply]