Caught my woman cheating. - Page 4

Originally Posted by DaneMcCloud:
Heartbreak makes the man, whether it's the career or the woman.

You'll bounce back strong, of that I have no doubt.

The real issue is now, today. Call all of your bro's and if they're unavailable, continue chatting here.

Talking this shit out is more than half the battle. You know that you have a lot to say, so just say it.

If you can't say it here, fire up your PC or Mac or Device and start typing away so that you say it.

Say it, Brotha, say it. Let it all out.

You may not even remember what you typed in the morning but you'll get a good night's rest and peace of mind by just letting it all out in a productive yet passive way.

We're all here for you, Dude.

Fluffy teddy bear Dane. :-)
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Sorry, man. Continue to keep the welfare of your son in mind and continue to be the better person. There is someone better out there for you.
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So sorry to hear this, tribe. Hang in there, man. I know it sounds stupid now, but somehow/someway things will work out for you. Just gotta go slow for a while and stay strong. Good luck, and remember, CP is here for you. Take care.
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Thanks to everyone.

I mean it.
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Crap :-) how did you find out?
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Sorry to hear bud. From my experience things never get better after someone cheats. Rip it off like a band aid. I know it's tougher when a child is involved. Just IMHO from what little I know.
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Don't do anything foolish and /or make any rash decisions. Your emotions are running high. Try and step away from the situation and think but don't obsess. Deal with what hurts you the most and you will be stronger for it and better able to deal with things - one way or the other. I'd lean towards the other...
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I am so very sorry to hear this. Stay strong and know that you are a great father to your children.

I hope you don't take her back. You deserve better.

Good luck
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I agree with Dane..don't go into a shell..lean on us or whoever you can.
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Sorry Tribe. In the end it all works out. Tomorrow might seem like you are in a dark place, but in reality its the first day towards something better.

Be safe, kid comes first. Then you. No one else matters.
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Its about whats best for you and the kid moving forward now. The trust is gone, time to move onward and upward from here.
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Originally Posted by Demonpenz:

Well said, Penz... especially the part about people who are acting up always coming back to "the rock" when they eventually come to their senses, doesnt mean you have to take them back and just forget everything

But as long as you stay on a steady, even keel... you will be the one in control, not them

In the meantime, take some time for yourself whenever possible... go do some fishing
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Originally Posted by Demonpenz:

Man, that all sounds really solid.

Thanks for taking the time.

I want you guys to know, 100% BS aside, this thread has helped me deal with this situation in a positive way.

I like to crack jokes about the situation, but it is heavy, and I'm damn proud of how the events of the last few days have played out.

You guys played a part in that.
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