My dad died in May of last year, and I'm the executor of his estate. It's been a nightmare. He died without a will and sorting through everything has been an awful mess.
My father lived in Iowa, and he had a "companion" that he met online. I've been very skeptical of this woman from the outset, but how do you tell your 78 year old father he's being taken for a ride? His "companion" lives in New Mexico, and my father would go down to New Mexico during the Winter months. Dad bought a motor home and left it in New Mexico, giving her full access. However, the motor home was only titled and registered in his name.
Well, after dad died, I discovered this woman had the motor home retitled and registered in her name.
I've spoken to several lawyers, including the DA of the county in which the motor home was stolen, as well as the state police and local law enforcement, and I haven't gotten anywhere.
Law enforcement is calling it a civil matter, even saying that this woman claims my father gave her the vehicle prior to his death. It's incredibly frustrating. If her claims are true, which they are not, why did she wait until after he died to retitle and reregister the vehicle?
Every attorney I've spoken to is calling this a law enforcement matter.
It's like nobody wants to do their fucking job, and I'm at my wits end about this.
Originally Posted by Joe Seahawk:
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I'm sorry to hear about the difficult situation you are going through. It can be frustrating when it feels like law enforcement and attorneys aren't taking your concerns seriously.
One option you might consider is pursuing a civil lawsuit against the woman. You could consult with a civil litigation attorney who could help you determine if you have a case and what your legal options are.
Another option is to seek the help of a private investigator who can gather evidence to support your case. They may be able to find evidence that could prove that the woman's claim of ownership of the motor home is false.
You could also try to gather evidence on your own, such as bank statements or emails, that could help prove your case.
In addition to legal action, you could also try reaching out to local media outlets or consumer protection agencies. They may be able to help bring attention to your case and put pressure on law enforcement and the legal system to take action.
Finally, it's important to take care of yourself during this stressful time. Consider reaching out to a therapist or support group to help you cope with the emotions and challenges you are facing.
Hmm. That's actually a really good answer. [Reply]
I guess I’m just trying to get attention at this point.
Lot of good posters in this thread with sound advice.
I got an attorney who found this woman’s long history of scamming.
Suing this woman. And my attorney is driving a civil suit. Between the RV and a lot of other stuff, I’m guessing she screwed my dad out of close to 100 grand.
And my attorney has been trying to serve her papers, but she’s running.
I don’t have a lot of hateful thoughts, but this bitch…
I’m trying to remain optimistic.
I appreciate many of you for your advice, helpful thoughts, etc.
But for some of you that think this is a time for you to think you’re funny, or clever, or whatever…. You need to check yourself. If you care about yourself, your elderly parents, you should at least know empathy.
This is clearly not the best forum to discuss such serious issues, but I don’t have a lot of people to talk to. So give me a little grace, please. [Reply]
Originally Posted by GabyKeepsMeWarm: I guess I’m just trying to get attention at this point.
But for some of you that think this is a time for you to think you’re funny, or clever, or whatever…. You need to check yourself. If you care about yourself, your elderly parents, you should at least know empathy.
This is clearly not the best forum to discuss such serious issues, but I don’t have a lot of people to talk to. So give me a little grace, please.
This is your user name and tag line: GabyKeepsMeWarm
I'll fuck anything that moves!
You've posted 371 times in total over two years.
You say you are seeking attention but cry about people posting things that they think are funny.
You are a mult troll with a stupid fucking story and even a bigger piece of shit with your stupid attempt at sympathy.
I picture you as one of about 5 noted douchenozzles on here trying to be cute.
Nice try but not believing it a fucking bit. :-) [Reply]
Originally Posted by GabyKeepsMeWarm:
I guess I’m just trying to get attention at this point.
Lot of good posters in this thread with sound advice.
I got an attorney who found this woman’s long history of scamming.
Suing this woman. And my attorney is driving a civil suit. Between the RV and a lot of other stuff, I’m guessing she screwed my dad out of close to 100 grand.
And my attorney has been trying to serve her papers, but she’s running.
I don’t have a lot of hateful thoughts, but this bitch…
I’m trying to remain optimistic.
I appreciate many of you for your advice, helpful thoughts, etc.
But for some of you that think this is a time for you to think you’re funny, or clever, or whatever…. You need to check yourself. If you care about yourself, your elderly parents, you should at least know empathy.
This is clearly not the best forum to discuss such serious issues, but I don’t have a lot of people to talk to. So give me a little grace, please.
What did you figure her rate was each time? That seems like a lot. Good for your old man that he was getting screwed at all, though. We can all only hope to have companionship like that in the end. [Reply]
So I'm reading this through different lenses today than last year when the thread was created. Since then my Dad has gone downhill healthwise and has been in a "skilled" nursing / assisted living facility and any thought of him being taken advantage of in his weakened state would set me off. I guess I'm just saying, "I feel 'ya".
How is this civil? the act committed is criminal in nature and hence cannot be taken under a civil matter. Do you have original copies of the title? [Reply]
5% of the population are psychopaths and women psychopaths are the worst. Childhood friends' uncle was an old country musician in the 80's (studio musician for some big acts). He fell for the same class of twat but she took it a step further. He died of a stroke and she took custody of the body and cut his family out. She bilked as much money as she could out of what little he had (old farmer) and then proceeded to dump his body into an unmarked grave -- somewhere in KS -- after the morgue released the remains. [Reply]
Just FYI - I'd take a little detail out of that post.
I went looking to see if I could find service information for your girl there and...well, things lay out pretty quickly/easily.
Unfortunately I couldn't find any useful information for ya, but if someone wanted to, it wouldn't be hard for them to get more information than you really want them having...
