Originally Posted by bogey:
A quick hug might be okay. Follow her lead on that. On the first meeting, there's nothing wrong with a nice FIRM hand shake. If you do shake her hand, grasp her whole hand, not just her fingers and put your left hand on top and remember make it a firm hand shake, not a limp noodle. Limp hand shakes show weakness.
I've always heard that for job interviews....then again, I guess a first date is similar. [Reply]
Originally Posted by bogey:
A quick hug might be okay. Follow her lead on that. On the first meeting, there's nothing wrong with a nice FIRM hand shake. If you do shake her hand, grasp her whole hand, not just her fingers and put your left hand on top and remember make it a firm hand shake, not a limp noodle. Limp hand shakes show weakness.
not too firm, Jesus we don't want the girl's hand to fall off [Reply]
I think greetings are really hard. Like, some girls like it if you get up to pull out her chair when she first arrives, while others hate it. Let's hope it's a booth...lol. [Reply]
she knows if she's gonna f*ck you within the first 10 seconds. considering she has seen your picture, and was the one who initiated, and knows you are in town only temporarily, odds are greatly in your favor.
just don't do anything to f*ck it up. ask questions. when she's telling stories, ask more questions. before you know it, hours will have flown by, she'll be drunk enough for the taking. [Reply]
I say play it real chill to start. No hugs, kisses, breast fondling, or the like. A warm smile and a nice compliment is a great way to start. You need to feel her out from there and determine what is expected, acceptable, and then tolerable. :-) [Reply]
Originally Posted by sedated:
she knows if she's gonna f*ck you within the first 10 seconds. considering she has seen your picture, and was the one who initiated, and knows you are in town only temporarily, odds are greatly in your favor.
just don't do anything to f*ck it up. ask questions. when she's telling stories, ask more questions. before you know it, hours will have flown by, she'll be drunk enough for the taking.
Girls like to talk about themselves. We're selfish that way. If she's telling stories and drinking, you'll know pretty soon what your odds are. [Reply]
I recommend alcohol. Quite a bit, actually. Especially for her, no offense, GoChiefs. This is sound advice for anyone, really, and it would be a direction I would go if in your shoes. [Reply]
