The instantly infamous audio clip of Tyreek Hill and Crystal Espinal that KCTV-5 aired on Thursday night stood for many things at once.
It was a lens onto a chilling side of Hill, whose response to being told their 3-year-old son is terrified of him was, “You need to be terrified of me, too, bitch.” It was an appalling glimpse at what several sources have told The Star is a toxic relationship.
And her disturbing reference to covering for him with authorities (“I rode for you,” as she put it) was a window into the sorts of obstacles to which Johnson County district attorney Steve Howe seemed to be alluding on Thursday. That’s when he said a crime had been committed when it came their son, who The Star reported had suffered a broken arm among other injuries, but suggested he couldn’t bring charges because the couple had conspired to stonewall a month-long investigation.
Perhaps most of all, the excerpt from a recording Espinal reportedly made while the couple was walking in the Dubai International Airport also was a moment of tangible clarity and, in fact, a favor to the Chiefs.
Unless they are morally bankrupt, it’s easy now.
If they care about what they stand for, if they care about the community, if they care about victims of abuse and their families who already had to be conflicted watching this previously convicted man cavort on the field, Hill can’t be part of this team.
It’s that simple: If they care about honor and decency, Hill can’t be part of this team.
Even after Howe’s extraordinary news conference, there was scant room for equivocation or rationalization about Hill unless they were bent on denial or creating smokescreens around the real issue.
Which they could well have been, given that Hill is their second-most dynamic offensive player behind Patrick Mahomes and arguably fundamental to their ambitions of playing in the Super Bowl for the first time in half a century.
Sure, the Chiefs are in business to compete, not be a pillar of virtue. Those worlds can collide, and it can be complicated. Or as reader Dan Curry eloquently put it in an email on Thursday: “We want them to be a beacon of honor, but they’re also a business where that beacon shines on winning from the thousands of fans who follow them.”
But the spotlight now is on what looms as a trend for this franchise, which cut running back Kareem Hunt last fall only after video surfaced of him knocking over and shoving a woman months before and emphasized it was for lying.
Earlier this week, the Chiefs traded for Seattle defensive end Frank Clark, who was involved in a domestic violence incident in 2014 that led to him being dismissed from the Michigan football team.
Sure, it’s hard to have a one-size-fits-all policy. And we can’t be so cynical that we don’t believe in second chances, can we?
Just the same, this is a franchise that should feel more duty-bound than most to be sensitive to domestic violence in the wake of the 2012 murder of Kasandra Perkins by linebacker Jovan Belcher, who then killed himself in the parking lot outside the Chiefs’ training facility.
When the Chiefs drafted Hill in 2016, a few months after he pleaded guilty to domestic assault and battery by strangulation of the then-pregnant Espinal, I touched base with Perkins’ mother, Becky Gonzalez.
“I heard the story: It’s disheartening to see another case of money over morals,” Becky Gonzalez, the grandmother to orphaned baby Zoey, said via text message. “They (the NFL) do whatever damage control is necessary at the time to appease (the) public but never take a stance.
“I hope they don’t end up regretting their decision.”
For a while, their decision looked good. While Hill was emerging as a human blur and one of the most exciting players anyone has ever seen, he also by all accounts was conducting himself with exemplary behavior.
When his three-year deferred sentence ended last August and Hill had completed all of his court-mandated requirements, Hill’s conviction in Payne County, Okla., was expunged. And it was heartening to hear what county assistant DA for domestic violence Debra Vincent said.
“Who’s to say that this wasn’t life-changing in how he looked at that part of his life?” she said in a phone interview at the time.
But Vincent also reminded me of the truth that was always lurking: She warned that the work he’d done to date was no guarantee of future behavior. Because his progress could only be measured over a lifetime, not a few years — just as concerned local domestic abuse experts warned when the Chiefs drafted Hill and trumpeted their vetting and urged us all to trust them.
And that’s the other favor this sad situation has done for the Chiefs. It stands as a statement that they need to change their attitude about this, not to mention their system.
When they said “trust us” and implied they knew better than the experts and said they had thoroughly vetted him and that they have their own in-house ways of working with these situations, they didn’t know what they didn’t know.
Now they need to own up to that and revisit how they do this part of the business, perhaps with a dose of transparency involved, lest they continue to go down this path and have reason to regret it again.
Vahe Gregorian has been a sports columnist for The Kansas City Star since 2013 after 25 years at the St. Louis Post-Dispatch. He has covered a wide spectrum of sports, including 10 Olympics. Vahe was an English major at the University of Pennsylvania and earned his master’s degree at Mizzou. [Reply]
Originally Posted by AdolfOliverBush:
When is Robert Kraft going to be forced to sell the Patriots, due to his support of human trafficking? At least Hill doesn't support ****ing children.
No human was trafficked in the case. The police made it up.
I’m sure the young lady enjoys her job of giving out handies to old men. She probably wasn’t desperate for money or anything. And prostitution is still a crime idiot. [Reply]
Good point. The pats were already employing murderers and kid mouth kissers, and now they are trafficking Asian children. All in thr name of winning a few football games [Reply]
Originally Posted by htismaqe:
The only reason to let the NFL take the lead is to try and avoid what happened with Hunt.
Unfortunately, while waiting on the NFL might be the right FOOTBALL decision, that doesn't mean it's the right decision.
All of the moral arguments aside, it's a football distraction for the team right now, at a very critical time on the offseason. It needs to be resolved quickly and decisively. If the NFL can't do that, the Chiefs need to.
Meh, it's all about football for me. And a mad Hill might be an even more productive Hill too.
Sorry, the NFL made this bed by letting KHunt back in the league, it has to left to them to decide. And they won't take long, this is in the non-sports news.
It's a game of chicken at this point, Clark needs to stand strong. [Reply]
Originally Posted by PatsWinAgain:
No human was trafficked in the case. The police made it up.
Google is your friend. Use it wisely.
The reason cameras were installed in that spa in the first place was suspicion of human trafficking. Kraft was going to get his vienna sausage milked either way. At a bare minimum, he indirectly supports human trafficking, and only avoided directly supporting it through sheer dumb luck. He should forced out of the league, if the NFL is going to claim to care about children. [Reply]
Originally Posted by ChiefsCountry:
I find it interested that some of the mouth breathers like BlackOp and SweetDaddyHate want Bob Kraft have the electric chair and banned from football for getting a hand job yet are defending Tyreek Hill, a child and woman abuser to no ends.
Name-calling like that isn't very nice. Accurate? Yes. But nice? No.
But now that you mention it, in addition to those mental gymnastics, those posters also spent an entire season completely eviscerating Eric Berry on the basis of endless speculation about his medical condition. Eric. Berry. Team leader, inspirational figure, and cancer survivor. But now that some of us have an opinion on acknowledged abuser Tyreek Hill and choose to express it freely, they play the innocent-until-proven-guilty card and criticize those who make judgments without knowing all the facts, as if the CP standard is on par with a criminal court of law.
Only here can Hill find his most sympathetic support group while Berry is vilified.
But their play on the field has nothing to do with it, of course. These guys just believe in fairness, decency, and respect. :-) [Reply]
Originally Posted by Chris Meck:
it is what it is. He is what he is. Let's just move on.
Fuck no. We're going to let the courts and the league do their job as they should. There IS NO guilt until proven in a court of law. Now if you want to go join or help the DA's team to prove their case, that's fine by me.
But don't ask everyone else here to tuck their tails between their legs while simultaneously checking their brains at the front door. [Reply]
Originally Posted by redhed:
Why should the Chiefs care about honor and decency? The league doesn't, nor does any other team. Or maybe the NFL could give an award to the nicest, most honorable and decent team every year, kinda like a team congeniality award.
Yes, a Humanitarian Superbowl...held at Disneyland. They could have a Boy-scouts marching band at halftime....and a video about stranger-danger. Only nice, moral guys get to play. Could they fill two rosters...that would be an issue.
It's an NFL/Corporate sponsorship wet-fake dream...of synthetic living in fantasy land. [Reply]
Originally Posted by AdolfOliverBush:
The reason cameras were installed in that spa in the first place was suspicion of human trafficking. Kraft was going to get his vienna sausage milked either way. At a bare minimum, he indirectly supports human trafficking, and only avoided directly supporting it through sheer dumb luck. He should forced out of the league, if the NFL is going to claim to care about children.
Ok so there was no Human Trafficking. What happened to Kraft was equivalent to someone walking in to whorehouse in Las Vegas for a handjob . Difference is prostitution is legal in Nevada.
Let’s stone BoB Kraft to death for that. How dare he. [Reply]
Prostitution is illegal in Las Vegas. Try again. And just because it’s acceptable in Nevada doesn’t make it ok in Florida. I’m helping you find your moral compass Pats fan. You don’t get to just pick and choose your outrage. [Reply]
Originally Posted by PatsWinAgain:
Ok so there was no Human Trafficking. What happened to Kraft was equivalent to someone walking in to whorehouse in Las Vegas for a handjob . Difference is prostitution is legal in Nevada.
Let’s stone BoB Kraft to death for that. How dare he.
"Bobby" had just met with an anti-sex trafficking nonprofit a few weeks before this..he gives them money in order to appear like he gives a shit...then promptly goes to a place that has all the ear marks of trafficking...twice. It was so obvious that the police had a sting set up inside.
