Whatever issues you may have in the relationship, her cheating is not your fault. This is something she did, a choice she made. You're the victim here. Don't look for reasons to feel guilty or for things you could have done to prevent it. There aren't any.
Just a personal opinion here, but this is something where there's no second chance. You need to move on. It's tough but the only real option long-term. Trust has been broken, and most likely more than the one time you know about. [Reply]
I wouldn't give her the time of day (I know that's easier said than done since you love her) unless if it's for business regarding your kid, or to get certain affairs in order to help move along the split. [Reply]
If i were in your shoes, i'd call up some friends and hit up the strip club.
Remind yourself of all the beautiful snatch out there in this world and that you are a lion in a field of lions, ready to fuck the next sexy gazelle that grazes your way.
Start looking forward to things in life, understand that you'll be MORE happy than before once you get over it. You'll recover faster.
Stand proud my man, and understand that this is merely a new beginning. [Reply]
The kids continue to get all the love they deserve and more, but she goes to the curb.
You get a reset button, start things again, do everything great like someone who is on the way up would do. Get a new place, hit the gym, eventually meet someone new and better, etc etc
She can enjoy life struggling with her douchebag ex and wondering why she screwed up something good by being a whore. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Cochise:
Living well is the best revenge.
The kids continue to get all the love they deserve and more, but she goes to the curb.
You get a reset button, start things again, do everything great like someone who is on the way up would do. Get a new place, hit the gym, eventually meet someone new and better, etc etc
She can enjoy life struggling with her douchebag ex and wondering why she screwed up something good by being a whore.
Originally Posted by Cochise:
Living well is the best revenge.
The kids continue to get all the love they deserve and more, but she goes to the curb.
You get a reset button, start things again, do everything great like someone who is on the way up would do. Get a new place, hit the gym, eventually meet someone new and better, etc etc
She can enjoy life struggling with her douchebag ex and wondering why she screwed up something good by being a whore.
Originally Posted by Cochise:
Living well is the best revenge.
The kids continue to get all the love they deserve and more, but she goes to the curb.
You get a reset button, start things again, do everything great like someone who is on the way up would do. Get a new place, hit the gym, eventually meet someone new and better, etc etc
She can enjoy life struggling with her douchebag ex and wondering why she screwed up something good by being a whore.
Fact.
I had a long term girlfriend in college that cheated and ran off. Got knocked up a month or so later, was married in 3 months and getting beaten and divorced in a year. Somehow through a friend of a friend of a friend a pic of her popped up on my feed last week.....she looks like grimace now. My wife is hot...and faithful. [Reply]
I had a long term girlfriend in college that cheated and ran off. Got knocked up a month or so later, was married in 3 months and getting beaten and divorced in a year. Somehow through a friend of a friend of a friend a pic of her popped up on my feed last week.....she looks like grimace now. My wife is hot...and faithful.
That's YOUR fault for having a 'long term girlfriend in college'.
Originally Posted by Cochise:
Living well is the best revenge.
The kids continue to get all the love they deserve and more, but she goes to the curb.
You get a reset button, start things again, do everything great like someone who is on the way up would do. Get a new place, hit the gym, eventually meet someone new and better, etc etc
She can enjoy life struggling with her douchebag ex and wondering why she screwed up something good by being a whore.
She will prolly cheat on him too, and he'll deserve it. [Reply]
