Use this as leverage. You will rise from this like a phoenix from the ashes.
One of the keys to getting over a breakup smoothly is to avoid all contact- it needs to be a CLEAN cut. Embrace the change, you'll grow so much from this man, I ****ing believe in you.
Also remember to keep your self-value high during this process, if you let it go down, that's when it becomes really really tough. The more your self value goes down, the weaker you become. The weaker you become, the more you need the girl back. Focus on bettering yourself and your daughter- in fact make that your sole purpose from here on out- that alone will turn you into a ****ing beast in no time.
Maybe you should not post this stuff on a message board... Your girl went crazy, you are probably drunk. Delete this account and lawyer up. Just my drunken advice. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Hamwallet:
Maybe you should not post this stuff on a message board... Your girl went crazy, you are probably drunk. Delete this account and lawyer up. Just my drunken advice.
Bullshit. This is a great outlet. I did the same when I lost my job and it was a big help.
No one would give a shit if you posted something like this though so I get your dickness. [Reply]
Sorry to hear about this, but it's an opportunity for you. Move on, live well, and find someone better. It's a big world and there'll always be someone better. [Reply]