Originally Posted by Halfcan:
You are worth waiting for-don't ever sell yourself short. I was just saying-don't let your past losers effect a chance at a winner. Let your heart tell you when it is time-don't try to mandate a certain time limit because you made some Moostakes- I mean mistakes.
That is probably the best piece of advice given in this thread at this point. [Reply]
Originally Posted by luv:
Yeah, did I mention I haven't been very successful with that practice?
Oh, well just go in with an open mind and have a good time. I'm not suggesting you feel obligated to the guy. I'm merely saying that you should give yourself guiltless permission if it feels right. He's going to considerable effort because he feels you're worth it. Now that shouldn't give him a round-trip ticket to your vagina, but if you've made it clear that he should have no sexual expectations and he's still coming, that should count for something on the emotional side.... right? [Reply]
Actually, I've been on another message board where I've heard good things about okcupid.com. Haven't checked it out though.
I checked it out. I put in my location and I must say there are some crazy chicks in LA. Check out the first one on this page http://www.okcupid.com/match?low=21 [Reply]
Originally Posted by Phobia:
Oh, well just go in with an open mind and have a good time. I'm not suggesting you feel obligated to the guy. I'm merely saying that you should give yourself guiltless permission if it feels right. He's going to considerable effort because he feels you're worth it. Now that shouldn't give him a round-trip ticket to your vagina, but if you've made it clear that he should have no sexual expectations and he's still coming, that should count for something on the emotional side.... right?
Originally Posted by 88TG88:
I checked it out. I put in my location and I must say there are some crazy chicks in LA. Check out the first one on this page http://www.okcupid.com/match?low=21
You should check out the alt.com, too. lol [Reply]
Originally Posted by 88TG88:
I checked it out. I put in my location and I must say there are some crazy chicks in LA. Check out the first one on this page http://www.okcupid.com/match?low=21
I will give you the secret to Internet dating grasshopper.
Always shoot for girls in your league or even better-just below. Be the "Nice" gentlemen, but throw in some flirting to let them know your interested and not "too" nice. Give a few "badboy" stories to let them know you have a "mysterious" past, but want to meet the right girl to keep you on the straight and narrow. Some girls just want to feel needed and that they are making a difference.
and the closer
push her to the edge of doing it and then pull back before she does. It makes you seem vunerable-then say-man its been sooo long, I just don't think I am ready to take it to that level yet.
Originally Posted by 88TG88: :-)
Yes, I finally found a place where i can find a woman who also loves Dacryphilia.
Interesting site, huh? I had a co-worker who knew how stressed I was with the whole dating scene that kept asking if I checked it out. Definitely made me laugh. Also made me wonder how he knew about it. :-):-) [Reply]
Originally Posted by luv:
Interesting site, huh? I had a co-worker who knew how stressed I was with the whole dating scene that kept asking if I checked it out. Definitely made me laugh. Also made me wonder how he knew about it. :-):-)
