Originally Posted by Clint in Wichita:
Whatever works for you.
My earlier reply was referring to men in particular.
Every man who's ever flirted with you, whether it was the mailman or a creepy first cousin, has wanted to have sex with you. I don't care what they say, it doesn't matter.
Where men are concerned: Flirting = desire for sex.
No exceptions.
I would take exception to this, once a guy gets past say 50, he could be trying to row his boat with a piece of rope. If you have a desire for sex but cannot do the deed, is it still cheating? [Reply]
Originally Posted by Clint in Wichita:
Whatever works for you.
My earlier reply was referring to men in particular.
Every man who's ever flirted with you, whether it was the mailman or a creepy first cousin, has wanted to have sex with you. I don't care what they say, it doesn't matter.
Where men are concerned: Flirting = desire for sex.
No exceptions.
Pretty cavalier of you to make the sweeping declaration that all men want sex with a woman when they 'flirt".....you probably should have added "in my opinion".
Originally Posted by Clint in Wichita:
Is online flirting, when you know your S.O. disapproves, OK because you "are only flirting online and not in the real world"?
My opinion (surprise, surprise) is that it's not OK, period. It's said to be OK because it's not face-to-face, and online it's just fun and games.
I call bullsh!t. People meet online friends in person all the time. They even meet spouses online. The "it's only online" argument is bogus.
I would also imagine that many of those who feel it's OK would be less than eager to have their own S.O.s discover their activity.
Thoughts?
I'm new but this intrigued me.
I think flirting on a bulletin board is just words unless pictures, emails and phone calls are involved.
I haven't seen any pictures so I'd guess it's just words being exchanged.
I do know, from experience, that trust is like a soap bubble, once broken it cannot be replaced. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Clint in Wichita:
Is online flirting, when you know your S.O. disapproves, OK because you "are only flirting online and not in the real world"?
My opinion (surprise, surprise) is that it's not OK, period. It's said to be OK because it's not face-to-face, and online it's just fun and games.
I call bullsh!t. People meet online friends in person all the time. They even meet spouses online. The "it's only online" argument is bogus.
I would also imagine that many of those who feel it's OK would be less than eager to have their own S.O.s discover their activity.
My earlier reply was referring to men in particular.
Every man who's ever flirted with you, whether it was the mailman or a creepy first cousin, has wanted to have sex with you. I don't care what they say, it doesn't matter.
Where men are concerned: Flirting = desire for sex.
No exceptions.
Plenty of exceptions. Fat women, ugly women, your buddies SO! You can flirt with someone with no intentions of sleeping with them, I would say that happens more often than not. [Reply]
Originally Posted by ChiefsOne:
Plenty of exceptions. Fat women, ugly women, your buddies SO! You can flirt with someone with no intentions of sleeping with them, I would say that happens more often than not.
Clint your wife flirts, do you honestly believe she wants to screw everyone she flirts with? I believe lots of women just do it for ego or to see how far they can push you.
When you flirt do you want to sleep with them? [Reply]
My wife has a problem with me flirting online and looking at pictures of very scantly clad/naked ladys. I simply tell her if she would put out more, instead of flirting with people and looking at pictures on a damn computer id be screwing her and looking at her naked in real life. She gets mad at first but it works! [Reply]
Its wrong if your with a significant other, becuase that shit can turn out to be much much more then just internet flirting.
Its not a bad thing one of my best friends is a chick i have met from a chat room back in like 1996. She comes down to visit every so often. Hell, once she brought her friend with her, and me and her friend hooked up nd ated for a while, before i ****ed it all up. Should have kept her, she was so damn nice. Oh well, mistakes people make. lol [Reply]