Last August, I took a job in Healthcare admin, good benefits, and got my own place out in the country, just me and the dog...
Around the same time, I started seeing a good friend of mine, she's been my friend for years...we started sleeping together. I mean, she's pretty smoking, perfect ass and perky titties. Awesome sexual chemistry. Before long I had a key to her place, we were planning meals and weekends together, I was picking her kids up from school and taking them to karate on Tues/Thurs...
And then things go haywire :
She starts nitpicking me to death.
Then about 2 weeks ago, I find the ubiquitous "hey you wanna do me on your lunch hour text" on her phone (by accident - not a snoop), to which she tried to explain away and told me also that we hadn't actually sat down and defined anything yet, but that if I wanted her to not talk with (or ****) other guys, and be exclusive, then she would be into that...
Well we broke up last night, for the best but man I'm ****ing depressed. She ****ing physically attacked me, neighbors called the cops, it was stupid. I'm embarrassed. Maybe someday, I'll meet a nice girl who won't cheat on me or get drunk and try to beat me up...but I doubt it. I mean, I'm a good dude, don't cheat or hit the wimmin folk, good job, live on my own...I deserve to be treated with respect. So...I'm probably going to isolate myself for awhile. She was one of my best friends for a long time. It makes me sad.
So, I don't need any "chin up" or "you're better off" or "well, what'd you expect!?"
I just need to know if there are ANY women between the ages of, say, 23 and 42 that actually cook, clean, do laundry, don't drink excessively, don't go batshit off the rails when they DO have a couple, and won't **** the neighbor or suck off the pizza guy everytime your back is turned?? Someone I can CONVERSE with, and have a real connection with? Someone who respects themselves and others, and are comfortable enough inside themselves to show that respect ALWAYS?
I just need to know if there are ANY women between the ages of, say, 23 and 42 that actually cook, clean, do laundry, don't drink excessively, don't go batshit off the rails when they DO have a couple, and won't **** the neighbor or suck off the pizza guy everytime your back is turned?? Someone I can CONVERSE with, and have a real connection with? Someone who respects themselves and others, and are comfortable enough inside themselves to show that respect ALWAYS?
Originally Posted by gblowfish:
Look at the bright side. Now you don't have to blow a couple hundred on her and her kids for Christmas.
Truism. But seriously, you should have had "the discussion" when you exchanged keys and started the carpool. We guys seem to put that off as long as we can. The hard fact is women own 100% of the pussy and can use it as they want. I'm not saying that's right, but if you gave her no signal that you wanted to be exclusive, how did she know you weren't having backseat booglaloos with someone else at lunch? [Reply]
Originally Posted by oldman:
Truism. But seriously, you should have had "the discussion" when you exchanged keys and started the carpool. We guys seem to put that off as long as we can. The hard fact is women own 100% of the pussy and can use it as they want. I'm not saying that's right, but if you gave her no signal that you wanted to be exclusive, how did she know you weren't having backseat booglaloos with someone else at lunch?
Well, they own 99.98% of the pussy. The rest belong to Bill Kenney and Matt Casshole. [Reply]
If she's having non-exclusive boyfriends picking up her kids, my Spidey Sense tells me that there is danger.
Dan Harmon says that the trick to fighting depression is to talk about it constantly so that it doesn't overwhelm you. I think there is truth to that. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Trivers:
Sorry for your pain.
My first wife tried to be physically abusive when she had her period or drinking.
eharmony.com
Worked for me...I had to go 1/2 across the country to find 2nd wife. Wish I would have met her 20 years sooner.
I cant ****ing stand people who wanna fight when they're drunk, male or female... wont have them as friends or girlfriends, I drink to have a good time [Reply]
