Originally Posted by Smellway: My girlfriend invited me to be her date to this wedding, across the state from where i live, for a couple i never met. Shes also the maid of honor in this wedding, so theres been a lot of awkward sitting around. Needless to say, theres places id rather be than here right about now - in a suit on a hot fucking day in Pittsburgh.
Last night, she told me i'm cheap because ive been keeping track of my spending relating to this wedding because i expect her to pay me back for gas and tolls (its 40 in tolls RT and i just had to fill her jeep up for another 40). I dont know any of these people and im solely here because it was important to her that was.
I dont think I should be responsible for any expenses that she would have had to pay regardless of whether or not i attended. I certainly dont expect to be insulted over it.
Thoughts?
You deserve everything you get, cheap ass. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Smellway:
My girlfriend invited me to be her date to this wedding, across the state from where i live, for a couple i never met. Shes also the maid of honor in this wedding, so theres been a lot of awkward sitting around. Needless to say, theres places id rather be than here right about now - in a suit on a hot ****ing day in Pittsburgh.
Last night, she told me i'm cheap because ive been keeping track of my spending relating to this wedding because i expect her to pay me back for gas and tolls (its 40 in tolls RT and i just had to fill her jeep up for another 40). I dont know any of these people and im solely here because it was important to her that was.
I dont think I should be responsible for any expenses that she would have had to pay regardless of whether or not i attended. I certainly dont expect to be insulted over it.
Originally Posted by Smellway:
My girlfriend invited me to be her date to this wedding, across the state from where i live, for a couple i never met. Shes also the maid of honor in this wedding, so theres been a lot of awkward sitting around. Needless to say, theres places id rather be than here right about now - in a suit on a hot ****ing day in Pittsburgh.
Last night, she told me i'm cheap because ive been keeping track of my spending relating to this wedding because i expect her to pay me back for gas and tolls (its 40 in tolls RT and i just had to fill her jeep up for another 40). I dont know any of these people and im solely here because it was important to her that was.
I dont think I should be responsible for any expenses that she would have had to pay regardless of whether or not i attended. I certainly dont expect to be insulted over it.
Originally Posted by Smellway:
My girlfriend invited me to be her date to this wedding, across the state from where i live, for a couple i never met. Shes also the maid of honor in this wedding, so theres been a lot of awkward sitting around. Needless to say, theres places id rather be than here right about now - in a suit on a hot fucking day in Pittsburgh.
Last night, she told me i'm cheap because ive been keeping track of my spending relating to this wedding because i expect her to pay me back for gas and tolls (its 40 in tolls RT and i just had to fill her jeep up for another 40). I dont know any of these people and im solely here because it was important to her that was.
I dont think I should be responsible for any expenses that she would have had to pay regardless of whether or not i attended. I certainly dont expect to be insulted over it.
Thoughts?
Yeah, she should have offered to pay your expenses. That's 100% on her for not going that mile as part of the whole thing.
However, it's 100% on you for making a deal of it now in making it petty. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Smellway:
bullshit. why should i fill up her car with gas on a trip i didn't want to go on.
me being here should be enough.
it's not even about the money for her, i'm sure if you pushed hard enough she'd pay you. It's more of you being unwilling to take care of her and show her you got her even if it doesn't benefit you. [Reply]
Originally Posted by RobBlake:
it's not even about the money for her, i'm sure if you pushed hard enough she'd pay you. It's more of you being unwilling to take care of her and show her you got her even if it doesn't benefit you.
