Originally Posted by GoChiefs:
Why? She was in no hurry to get out of the restaurant after we paid the bill. It was pretty clear she did not mind my company at all.
I probably sound a little desperate. Of course, I am. I've never had a second date. Help me face-sucking drunk girl, you're my only hope.
Well, no offense intended (seriously, just trying to help), but most women deep down are looking for someone with long term potential if they are dating. If they just want to get dirty they can go to the bar and pick the hottest guy they can find. In dating/relationships they picture someone who can protect/provide in the future for them and for their family. Get a job, get your own place. Start taking some classes (there'll be plenty of women there anyway). It will probably do wonders for your confidence which is what they notice. No matter how nice and genuine you might be in real life, unemployed and lives with parents will never get you a second date. Take control, work on those things. Life will work itself out if you take control of it.
Apologies if I don't have a correct knowledge of your situation. Just going by what is said here. [Reply]
Originally Posted by chief103182:
Yes, much more inconspicuous.
I would so love the feedback. I don't have a clue how to initiate sexy talk with girls unless they give some obvious sign. I usually sit around talking about whatever their interests are and attempting to be mildly witty. [Reply]
Originally Posted by GoChiefs:
I would so love the feedback. I don't have a clue how to initiate sexy talk with girls unless they give some obvious sign. I usually sit around talking about whatever their interests are and attempting to be mildly witty.
Come run around with me for a week. I'd bet all my casino cash that I'm the ugliest person on this board. I've gained weight since I quit chewing. My phone is still ringing from women. I should probably get back in sales. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Lumpy:
She was more than likely just trying to be polite. Consider yourself lucky, she could have said that she would rather lick the hairy taint of a homeless guy rather than date u again. So hey, u may still have a chance. :-)
:-):-):-)
Sweet dancen Jesus in the garden Goatboy.
Thats TWO in a row you wined ,dined, and got high fived from.
Just go see a hooker will ya!:-) [Reply]
Originally Posted by BigChiefDave:
Old? 32, right? That is hardly old. I'll be 39 next month and I tend to target women in their early 30s. How old was this guy? Mid 20s I bet. You like 'em young, you Cougar. :-)
there's a learning curve, and I promise I don't mean that assholish. Give dating some time, but DON'T stop trying.
Keep your head straight. I have danced all around getting some hot trim. I know i'm doing something wrong. I've yet to pinpt. it, SPECIFICALLY, but I'm still trying. I'm mixing the batter up on a few cakes now, I just hope they don't fall while baking. This dating shit is different these days. [Reply]
GoChiefs, i just heard about this saying, it's: 'Treat a woman like you'd treat an eager cat' <- I really liked that. I don't really recall who told me, I think it was this homeless drunk w/ swine flu and whopping-cough. [Reply]
Originally Posted by GoChiefs:
There must be something horribly, horribly wrong with me. That girl drove like an hour to see me.
Don't beat yourself up over it. Seriously. What happened to cougar chasing? I saw one at the Walgreen's the other night and thought, "damn GC would be all over that". [Reply]
