Originally Posted by Mile High Mania:
The story is well told... and if true, congrats. But, I think you killed the deal when you mentioned going back to her place. I could be wrong on this, but I think that killed you, despite any kissing that took place. Go to a bar and talk... go find an actual Starbucks, walk around, get to know her. She's not going to take a new guy home after a few slices of pizza.
My guess would be she tried to lose you, then decided to pull over at the gas station to part ways.
Seriously... you had six condoms on you during your first encounter? Kudos for being prepared, but really.... six? And, next time, just leave them under the driver's seat.
Obviously she didn't want you to know where she lives. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Skip Towne:
Obviously she didn't want you to know where she lives.
No knock on Claythan, but no girl should do that in this situation... it's insane. Meeting someone on the internet, while not bad and is pretty normal is still something to be careful about. If you meet that person live, you still should avoid sharing too much, especially you're freaking address.
Hell, you already know too much most likely... if you were a predator/pyscho stalker - you'd have her car details, plate #, etc. Way too much info.
He can call anytime he wants. High school rules need not apply.
Originally Posted by DeezNutz:
While true, I'm sorry, the 'net introduces an entirely different element.
High school rules?
Look, I was married before online dating, texting and all this stuff blew up. But, I read this story and a few things stick out.
1 - they met online somehow (didn't read that part), so 1 cause for alarm for both parties
2 - you suggested you move the party to her house after meeting her for the first time
3 - you two kissed... again, after your suggestion right?
4 - you had 6 condoms on you for the first dinner date... granted, she didn't see them, but what types of vibes were you sending
So, you suggested she kiss you before you die in a car wreck on your way to her house...
You bet she got cold feet. I don't think you'll hear from her. I'm sure you're a harmless dude when it all boils down to what you're really all about, but you have some psycho red flags that I think you should consider toning down a bit. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Mile High Mania:
High school rules?
Look, I was married before online dating, texting and all this stuff blew up. But, I read this story and a few things stick out.
1 - they met online somehow (didn't read that part), so 1 cause for alarm for both parties
2 - you suggested you move the party to her house after meeting her for the first time
3 - you two kissed... again, after your suggestion right?
4 - you had 6 condoms on you for the first dinner date... granted, she didn't see them, but what types of vibes were you sending
So, you suggested she kiss you before you die in a car wreck on your way to her house...
You bet she got cold feet. I don't think you'll hear from her. I'm sure you're a harmless dude when it all boils down to what you're really all about, but you have some psycho red flags that I think you should consider toning down a bit.
I'm very bothered by the use of second-person pronouns, directed at GoChiefs, yet my posts being quoted! I wouldn't be mad if you deleted them.
I'm talking about your advice to wait until Wed. That's pointless, IMO. But I agree that I don't think he'll hear back from this girl. He scared the shit out of her. [Reply]
I wasn't sending out "LET'S FUCK" vibes...we had normal, non-sexual conversation. She initiated any thought of sex by saying "I'll make it a memorable night WINK WINK." [Reply]
Originally Posted by DeezNutz:
I'm very bothered by the use of second-person pronouns, directed at GoChiefs, yet my posts being quoted! I wouldn't be mad if you deleted them.
I'm talking about your advice to wait until Wed. That's pointless, IMO. But I agree that I don't think he'll hear back from this girl. He scared the shit out of her.
Interesting... we'll take that under consideration. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Claythan:
LOL...is that why she kissed me in a parking lot?
I wasn't sending out "LET'S ****" vibes...we had normal, non-sexual conversation. She initiated any thought of sex by saying "I'll make it a memorable night WINK WINK."
You may think that, but you've got a lot of things building up in you... you'll find out though if/when she returns your call.
Regarding the "cougar"... I'm guessing you met her the same way? How old is she and have you seen pictures? [Reply]