Originally Posted by luv:
Met a guy. He text messaged three times in thirty minutes, and said he had to get home. I know I'm ugly, but within thirty minutes? This one put another dent in the self-image.
I do not think that is warranted, luv.
The situation is a bit hazy from my vantage point, but maybe the guy has IBS and really had to get home? [Reply]
Maybe you should stop dating until the weight comes off? I don't want to sound like an asshole but that is your goal. And didn't you send him your old pictures? [Reply]
Originally Posted by luv:
Met a guy. He text messaged three times in thirty minutes, and said he had to get home.
I'm not following this story. You met him, then he texted you 3 times in 30mins and said he had to get home? When did he text you? Did you tell you he had to go home over text or in person? [Reply]
Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP:
I'm not following this story. You met him, then he texted you 3 times in 30mins and said he had to get home? When did he text you? Did you tell you he had to go home over text or in person?
He received three texts while he was with me. He answered two of them, and left when he got the third. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Claythan:
Maybe you should stop dating until the weight comes off? I don't want to sound like an asshole but that is your goal. And didn't you send him your old pictures?
I don't look that different from the pictures he saw.
I will not hiding behind my weight. I'm doing something about it. If they don't like it, screw 'em. [Reply]
Eh. Not really. I'd classify him as a player. Kind of the sleezy type who thinks he's hot. At least I'm not rude. I mean, how obvious can you be? [Reply]
Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP:
I don't recommend that, but I guess it could be a test. The right guy won't let you.
I kind of think that, too. I don't do it to play games though. I hate games. I also offer as to help take some of the pressure off. Kind of like a couple of friends meeting for munch, dinner, or drinks. [Reply]
Originally Posted by luv:
Met a guy. He text messaged three times in thirty minutes, and said he had to get home. I know I'm ugly, but within thirty minutes? This one put another dent in the self-image.
Originally Posted by luv:
I kind of think that, too. I don't do it to play games though. I hate games. I also offer as to help take some of the pressure off. Kind of like a couple of friends meeting for munch, dinner, or drinks.
That's nice and all but you're not a couple of friends - you're meeting a guy who (presumably) asked you out on a date. I know I don't allow the girls I take out to pay, at least on the first couple dates. [Reply]
Originally Posted by The Buddha:
Ugly is subjective... now shut up. :-)
I don't think I'm ugly at all. Overweight, yes. In most people's eyes, that equals being ugly. If it's not that, then it's my personality. I think I'm a good date though. Guy friends keep telling me how simple guys are. I must attract the complicated ones.
Oh, and I'm allowed to be down on myself. I got blown off before I could blow him off, damn it! [Reply]