Originally Posted by Pawnmower:
Ugh. I know these words don't mean much...but you are better off knowing this now than later so you can do what you need to do to get away from her. Use the anger and hurt as fuel that burns and drives you to improve your life and yourself. Don't take her back in matter how much she begs. Don't talk to her unless it's business or about your daughter. Keep it polite but clear that you want zero to do with her. Cheaters are the worst people. Watch your ATM and credit...etc. She probably cheated on you other times too...with people you know. Be thankful you found out. Good luck. It might take a while, but you'll be way better off in the long term.
Originally Posted by Chief Northman:
Be the man your daughter deserves.
As far as your "woman" is concerned, she doesn't deserve you.
Originally Posted by JASONSAUTO:
Damn man sorry to hear this. Don't do anything stupid. Stay strong for the little one.
Originally Posted by BucEyedPea:
Feel bad for ya'. A breakup is very painful. But 6 years together and have a child? You shoulda' married her. JMO but don't have all details.
I put my son to bed an hr or so ago. I'm not far behind him.
I'm a light weight when it comes to drinking. I'm already drowsy.
If you can't sleep, PM me.
Tomorrow's Valentine's Day so my little girls are the priority but tomorrow evening, I'll be able to chat.
Take care of yourself and be well. I know this is heartbreaking but stay strong and reach out if you feel like you're faltering. It doesn't need to be me or this forum, just reach out to someone, whether it's a friend or family. [Reply]
Damn, dude. Hang in there. You won't realize it now, but this is the best thing for you. Don't let it harden your heart; just realize that it's better you found out now, rather than later.
I feel for you, dude. I've been in this situation more times than I care to admit. The Army has that kind of an effect on a relationship. You'll get it sorted out. [Reply]
Originally Posted by DaneMcCloud:
If you can't sleep, PM me.
Tomorrow's Valentine's Day so my little girls are the priority but tomorrow evening, I'll be able to chat.
Take care of yourself and be well. I know this is heartbreaking but stay strong and reach out if you feel like you're faltering. It doesn't need to be me or this forum, just reach out.