Originally Posted by luv:
Because I've never been anyone's taste. The one time I thought I was, and he turns out to be a lying, cheating scum who used me. And you guys say that woen are the ones who use guys for such things as money and good credit.
That is usually how it works but it's not always that way.
It's like BWillie said in that one thread, in a general way of speaking, don't take this personally.
A woman will make a comment like "he doesn't have a good career" or he's going nowhere you'll never hear a guy say "man I really like this chick but she has a shitty job..." [Reply]
Originally Posted by Mecca:
That is usually how it works but it's not always that way.
It's like BWillie said in that one thread, in a general way of speaking, don't take this personally.
A woman will make a comment like "he doesn't have a good career" or he's going nowhere you'll never hear a guy say "man I really like this chick but she has a shitty job..."
Originally Posted by luv:
Because I've never been anyone's taste. The one time I thought I was, and he turns out to be a lying, cheating scum who used me. And you guys say that woen are the ones who use guys for such things as money and good credit.
Shit happens, it's life.....move forward and move on...don't dwell on the past. Yeah, women use men and vice versa, it happens all the time... [Reply]
I'm just going to go ahead and blame all of my bullshit overreacting on PMS or something. My goodness, talk about letting the insecurities come out. No wonder people think I'm destined to be with GoChiefs. I'm just as clueless as he is. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Dunit35:
LOL, you never do hear a guy say that.
Thinking the same thing....it's usual about looks or personality, like the gap in her teefffff or that hideous cackle she has, or she's insecure etc :-) [Reply]
Originally Posted by ChiefsCountry:
In all honesty, guys look for outside appreance while girls look for the inside stuff. Nothing wrong with that since that is what nature is.
Guys care about looks mostly, women care about money....that isn't 100% but it's a general rule. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Sure-Oz:
Thinking the same thing....it's usual about looks or personality, like the gap in her teefffff or that hideous cackle she has, or she's insecure etc :-)
Pretty much for women a guy could be every thing she wanted but if he had no job or a really shitty one she'd call him a loser or talk to her friends about how it isn't working out. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Mecca:
Pretty much for women a guy could be every thing she wanted but if he had no job or a really shitty one she'd call him a loser or talk to her friends about how it isn't working out.
I'd say it's being secure more than anything, honestly...a girl always wants the guy to take care of her. I'm lucky my gf can take care of me since she is a "career" type woman hehe. I know most of my friends gfs/wives that pretty much don't do anything [Reply]
Originally Posted by Mecca:
That is usually how it works but it's not always that way.
It's like BWillie said in that one thread, in a general way of speaking, don't take this personally.
A woman will make a comment like "he doesn't have a good career" or he's going nowhere you'll never hear a guy say "man I really like this chick but she has a shitty job..."
Probably because that those of us not raised by womens' libbers were in the type of environment where the man was the head of the house, aka the main breadwinner. It's not like we're necessarily looking for someone to take care of us (in a way, yes). We just think that the man should have better jobs than we do. I don't know that I could be a stay at home wife. I hate cleaning. If anything, I'd want to use the fact that I also have a job as leverage to talk the hubby into helping more with the household chores. :-)
As for men, where do they learn to be attracted to thin women? Oh yeah, media, friends, society, etc.... They are trained to think that fat = bad, lazy, etc. [Reply]
