The big anti-hijack thread.....
Talk about anything, but if this works than we don't have to keep looking around all the threads to see who is still on tonight, and every night, or even every day! Talk about the chiefs, talk about tomorrow, talk about football, politics or even how to do flooring and the applicable budget. What you're drinking, how hard it is to sleep, etc. Every thing is acceptable in this thread.....
Originally Posted by Rausch:
Either completely do or completely don't. Either lie like Hitler has your phone number or be as honest as the virgin Mary. I've seen it work both ways.
I'd tend to err to the side of honesty. I think being dishonest in a relationship is building a house of cards, and eventually the other shoe will drop.
Originally Posted by luv:
Communication is a good thing. It's actually hard for me to communicate my feelings in person (hard to believe, I know). I do though. It's not healthy to let things bottle up. Honesty is usually a good thing, too.
If I don't communicate something that's bothering me it will eat at me until it drives me crazy....so I always let the people I love know when something needs to be said. And I prefer brutal honesty over lying. Lying to someone is one of the worst things you can do to them, because you take away their ability to completely trust you.
