Originally Posted by me Alright, I can take a hint. Sorry. Good luck to you.
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You can take a hint? what did I do?
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Originally Posted by me I dunno, it just seems like you're not interested in meeting up for a drink. Did I read you wrong? I'm getting mixed signals here. You seem like a really cool girl who's just a little bit shy. Truth is I'm the same way. That's why I'm here and not diving into seedy bars every night.
Wow.. dumb. You never asked her out and then get all pissed at her? WTF? It's your job to ASK, not to hint. Doofus. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Claythan:
I did ask. Read again.
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Originally Posted by me Mmmm, well, if you know any good places in Houston to get a martini and I'd love to buy you one. Truth be told I've never even had a martini so maybe you could show me the ropes. :-)
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Good martini in Houston I'm not sure. I can tell you a place in San Antonio haha
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Originally Posted by me Where exactly in Houston are you?
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Southeast side
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Originally Posted by me Hmmm, well, this might be fairly close to you. Apparently it has a huge variety of martinis and they're pretty good.
actually, he's right just straight out ask," hey lets meet up at whatever location for some drinks" then verify the time that's more conducive for the both of you [Reply]
I'm going to say no to this chick, Claythan. She is obviously batshit crazy.
You need to find someone you can easily talk to. This is hard. I have an extreme case of social anxiety and find it difficult to converse with people without putting forth an effort. I don't picture you as the type that would enjoy talking to someone like this at a martini place.
I'd suggest meeting someone at a familiar territory to you, it will ease the pressure for yourself and you will be able to dictate the conversation as you see fit. Perhaps a favorite restaurant of yours? [Reply]
Originally Posted by Tribal Warfare:
actually, he's right just straight out ask," hey lets meet up at whatever location for some drinks" then verify the time that's more conducive for the both of you
Yep. You can't be that vague with chicks. "We should get together sometime.." "I'd like to meet you whenever.." "We should do something.." will get you no where and is NOT asking a girl out. You need to be specific and girls typically like a guy who takes charge and makes a decision.
For example, last night I told some chick to not make any plans for Friday night. Specific. Her response? "Where are we going to go?" Confirmed. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Saulbadguy:
I'd suggest meeting someone at a familiar territory to you, it will ease the pressure for yourself and you will be able to dictate the conversation as you see fit. Perhaps a favorite restaurant of yours?
"The lady will have a Quarter Pounder with Cheese, hold the onions, and I'll have the Indiana Jones McNuggets happy meal." [Reply]
Originally Posted by siberian khatru:
"The lady will have a Quarter Pounder with Cheese, hold the onions, and I'll have the Indiana Jones McNuggets happy meal."
Indiana Jones has the Zesty Double Whopper. Don't ask me how I know, it's too painful. [Reply]
